Hindsight is such a blessed thing.

Should I have had a time-machine to tell myself to keep running track, don’t date that person, buy bitcoin; I would have been in such a different space than I am in now. That point in itself is enough to appreciate all the hardship I’ve been through - whether useless or crucial to my growth as a person. That’s where the appreciation for hindsight comes in. Hindsight is such a blessed thing, because it’s the current you, using the past you, to create an informed future you. What in the inception?

But how do you harness the power of the hindsight?

Start by embracing a mindset of learning and self-reflection. Instead of beating yourself up over past mistakes or missed chances, focus on taking valuable lessons from them. Take the time to reflect on the situations, analyse the factors at play, and your own actions and motivations. Look for patterns, trends, and common potholes that you can identify and avoid in the future.

Reflection is key here - I recommend frequent journaling or keeping a record of your experiences. By writing down your thoughts and reflections regularly, you create a tangible resource that you can refer back to. This helps you gain perspective on your journey and serves as a reminder of the lessons you’ve learned along the way.

Seeking guidance from others who have walked similar paths can also be invaluable. Listen to their stories, absorb their wisdom, and incorporate their insights into your own decision-making process. Surround yourself with mentors, advisors, or a supportive community that can provide different perspectives and help you see beyond your own blind spots.

Lastly, don’t let the fear of making mistakes paralyse you. While hindsight can provide valuable insights, it’s important to remember that life is filled with uncertainties. Embrace the concept of informed risks, learn to trust your intuition, and take action even when you don’t have all the answers. Remember, hindsight becomes most powerful when combined with foresight—the ability to use past experiences to inform and shape a future filled with informed decisions and personal growth.

As you grow your trust in your hindsight and harness this into foresight, you will build momentum from all the actions you take and lessons you learn from these. Be brave, and build that trust and love in yourself.